Thinking different ("lateral thinking") is an innate way to look at reality. It often leads to startling conclusions. It is disconcerting and usually very fruitful.
It seems that I do it often, no effort, no special merit; ideas and images just spring open unexpectedly, subtly linking apparently unrelated matters.
That also applies to D/s. I have been impacted and intrigued by D/s mental images (Then I did not even knew what they meant) since my early teens.
Life and experience gave me clarity and purpose. I am now able to see, certainly in a different way, the few really relevant - but usually disregarded - issues to successful D/s relationships.
Extensively read, I have an insatiable curiosity, enjoy the company of people, conversation, wit, subtle irony and the deep involvement of D/s. Above all I aim to give pleasure and joy.
I naturally behave in a calm, urbane manner. I am extremely clean and neat. I tend to put high intensity in what I do or make do.
Also I am highly self-disciplined. If discipline is the free, enlightened acceptance of a code of conduct; then how can anyone be a disciplinarian without accepting and applying it to himself?.
But, contrary to what many think, discipline is not mere obedience, a prison, an inflexible constricting endeavor. It is an organized, ethical space of freedom where all involved can have control of their time, ideas, opinions, wishes.
It is a space of truth without fear. It builds and reinforces trust.
Sounds contradictory? It is not.
I do not raise my voice.
This is all. Thank you.
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Ma personne idéale :
I look for a sprightly, intellectually challenging, interested in D/s woman.
Personal space and time will be guaranteed. Limits tested and respected.
Curiosity and impeccable grooming are expected and will be fully reciprocated.
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