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I am an eccentric fellow who loves to embrace our intelligent but animal natures; the epitome of naughty-but-nice. It is the sensual, dirty, and primal that attracts me the most, including Bad Dragon toys. I've also experienced excitement and arousal by the sadistic, even though I would not class myself fully as a sadist and am not into full-on brutal violence with those I care about. What I seek is others to build a safe and supportive household with and to share the pleasures of a long term relationship. Due to being reserved with sexuality I like to keep it within the household, so I am not into things like swinging or dogging, but I am curious about the idea of a committed closed-poly household if that is desirable and works. Sentimental moments are lovely and appreciated though my approach to relationships is usually much more pragmatic than romantic, and that is not everyone's cup of tea, but hopefully there are some out there that don't mind that. I've been described as sapiosexual but then I'm also hypersexual, so I'm a walking contradiction in many ways.
While flexible and curious, overall I am usually top to a female partner and prefer to be in control in my household, but with a male partner I only really enjoy the bottom role without being his submissive. Emotionally I am most drawn to women and I have a great love and appreciation for their beauty and delicious shapes, along with the instinctive need for a breeding relationship and raising a family which creates a profound sense of purpose and achievement in life, so this tends to be my primary focus. However, the intensity of anal pleasures and the different experiences shared with a man are also very alluring, so sometimes I feel somewhat conflicted and drawn in different directions.
Lifestyle and kinks that I find attractive are things along the lines of cuddles, tactile caressing, consensual non-consent, slavery that centers around pragmatic service in daily life, nudism, some aspects of a hippy-ish and alternative life, body hair, body odours, lactation, breeding, fisting, anal, and moderate feederism. Control or micromanagement of a female partner is compatible with my nature and can be done if desired. I am curious about watersports and human toilet play. I do find it attractive when women describe how they want to be chained up and used as a toy for some amount of time, so I would be willing to explore things in that direction. Strange though it might sound, I also find intense clinginess to be very attractive as long as I have some degree of control over when my partner expresses it so that I still have some space to myself to do my own thing.
Regarding worldview, I am very much an alternative and anti-establishment person, but also a center-libertarian with some conservative aspects. I am spiritual and interested in consciousness and things beyond the physical senses but not religious. I love technology but might also come across as a bit of a Luddite in some ways. So hopefully that gives you a vague impression of the kind of person I am and whether I am in the right pigeon hole for your liking.
Not vaccinated and never will be. Last STD test was negative and have not had a partner since then. I will only share photos with people I feel are safe to share with.
I am neurodiverse and if you can accept my style of doing things, make an effort to communicate explicitly about things, and embrace my kinks then I am happy to explore, learn and grow with you. While I am feisty and like being in control in a relationship, it is difficult to be dominant straight out of the gate and I need time with someone physically to become comfortable with them and their needs, and to gradually introduce kink into it.
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