Creative and imaginative kinky ones sought, improvisational that is as I'm not seeking any specific fantasy/role-playing here. No Gorean acolytes, please. I'll renew a subscription based membership just prior to moving out to Washington State, in the interim am reduced to IM on here for contact. Feel free to IM, I don't bite unless it communicated/negotiated prior to nips and nibbles. Innate penchant for spankings, everything to do with it. Alternate mail, damnedkj at gmail.
I don't have much patience for pretense or BS (search Google for "On Bullshit"}. If you're looking to cheat on another or misrepresent self to attain gain, do us both a favor and move on.
A deeper level of honesty and trust are integral reasons for what drew me to BDSM in the first place. That and a rather vivid kinky imagination that I revel in. Very open-minded. Respectful of others relationships, I'll not IM or contact committed subs/slaves without permission of relevant party.
Switching, at least for me, is not about preference/identity so much as fact and reality, it depends more on what connection exists/develops. It's not about choice, more though desire; and imagination can influence state of being. Difficult to explain and it will never be crystal clear, goes to personality more than anything. Apparently I'm very perceptive, at least according to Myers-Briggs, that may be a large part of why I top. All that said, am one who subscribes to the belief there are no clear-cut lines between vanilla' and BDSM.
Play Partner:
Taking time to learn another's emotional needs and biases, To be vigilant of their privacy, respect them as an individual giving honorable consideration.
Hard Limits:
Anything that may get fecal matter ingested including rimming or toilet scenes/roleplaying. Heavy impact play, anything remotely uous, and no interest in age play.
Questions, criticisms, idly curious? Please do tell... contact freely.
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100% Switch
100% Rigger
100% Rope bunny
92% Sadist
87% Masochist
79% Experimentalist
77% Dominant
71% Pet
67% Exhibitionist
66% Primal (Hunter)
66% Owner
65% Primal (Prey)
64% Non-monogamist
63% Submissive
52% Daddy/Mommy
48% Vanilla
48% Master/Mistress
45% Voyeur
43% Brat tamer
39% Brat
25% Boy/Girl
3% Slave
1% Degradee
1% Ageplayer
0% Degrader
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My Ideal Person:
Blunt, forthright, and independent individual(s) that speak their mind. Interested in exploring aspects of BDSM in a safe, sane, and consensual manner. Spans the gamut from sharing a cup of coffee or a laugh with like-minded people to negotiating a scene.
Put another way, fucked up freaky people that are considerate of others and capable of empathy.
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